Justice versus conscience

We’re all dealing with our own wounds. We need to remember this, judge less and have more compassion for our fellow human beings. Loved the video Jay.

Jay, I’m a nurse and I am reminded everyday how different people are. How different their experience is. Thank you for talking about this.

When someone judges you it isn’t actually about you. It’s about their own insecurities, limitations and needs.

I have a habit of judging everyone but now I realise what a waste of time and energy to judge someone. Well but the fact is we do need to form deductions from the behaviour of the people before us so that we can protect ourselves and plan our actions better. But we must avoid misjudging anyone on the basis of what others say rather than what we think!

We only,presume,assume, predict and judge that we know what somebody is going through.don’t mind them its only their opinion, your feeling is unique

Fools judge. Wise men observe. Perception is important my friend #teenagedays

“Never judge a book by its cover!”

Even when positive, I definitely auto fill people’s sentences. I hope I can start recognizing this more to make the change as it occurs. I love Jay’s videos, they make me want to be a better person

Everyone goes through tragedies and problems throughout their life. Some people are just better at hiding it than others.

When someone share his feelings and pains with you, it’s important to try to get rid of that wall of “i know what you are going through, i had the same experience before” way of thinking and genuinly listen what the other person have to share. It isn’t a very intuitive behaviour, it takes practice like everything else, but you can make it. Little by little, get rid of all your misconceptions and allow yourself to be touched, moved by other people feelings again. This is the only way if you truely wants to help the other person. There is no shame to have things to learn by others.

Your life only gets better when you do. Work on yourself and the rest will follow.

Amazing message!

What you see on others may not be the reality. So never make conclusion for others based on your assumptions. That’s why we should never only focus on the surface and judge. But rather we should look deep into the heart and understand the reality.

Hey. I just need you advice on this Jay. I’ve always listened to my friends talk and vent but whenever I rant they just blow me off in a single sentence “ get over it”. What do I do further? Always keep being a good listener ?

This gave me goosebumps!! Thanks Jay, you’re such a great person, narrator and speaker. RESPECT

Inside everybody’s… there’s what you can’t see.

I just want to remind you that whoever judges you is also a human being, flawed and imperfect… we are all growing, learning and evolving!!!

The next time you go judging someone, just think about what they’re going through in their life.

When two people go through the same experience why do we assume that they are going through the exact same thing . How many times have you been like a Google autofill when someone is talking about their problems predicting what they are going to say because you have heard that problem before. You’ve heard about that challenge before you’ve heard it a million times but guess what the greatest art in listening to someones pain is recognizing their pain is unique instead we often judge assume presume and hope that we know what someone is going through. -Jay Shetty

I think this is one of my favorites you’ve made. Keep up the good work!

Deep. 2 people get hurt in the same way, but their reactions will not be the same. This reminded me of the 2 wolf story. 1 wolf is called hope. 1 wolf is called despair. You only have food to save 1. Which wolf will survive? The one u feed.

No one have ever power to judge someone pain untill he go through the same. Soo never try to judge anyone different person have different journey in their life. “We are no one to judge anyone”

Love this message so much.

Before we all judge others let us all ask ourself whether we are perfect or not

Jay. . Right, you’re so right. Everyone’s experience is different from another

GREAT INFORMATION AND VIDEO THANKS EVERYONE GOD BLESS JAY YOUR EPIC

Never Judge A Person By Its Cover Because Every Person Have Different Story :-

Meditation is intermittent fasting for the mind. Too much sugar leads to a heavy body, and too many distractions lead to a heavy mind. Time spent undistracted and alone, in self-examination, journaling, meditation, resolves the unresolved and takes us from mentally fat to fit. Naval Ravikant

Listen like you life depends on it. Show you care

Thanks for this share. Yes , when we say , this is a very small issue ( or very big ) , is solely our own assumption and presumption .

Oh my goodness! I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE THAT THOUGHT THOSE EXACT THINGS U SAID! HOLY MOLY! THIS IS TRIPPY

This is simply amazing…… I got divorced in 2018…. And my relationship started from 2012 to 2018… Its a long story…sir…but pain is i waited for my husband…and without any reason he hated me until last i diacovered i was poisoned in 2016..which left me to my home.. I got treated detoxed…and its around 80percent cured.. Now i. Never try to explain this to the world…only few of my friends know.. Rest think i am wasting my time not getting married… Thank u so much for this video… This is for those people who judge others without knowing their story.

@jayshatty I appreciate for the great advices you give us every time. Thanks a lot. Number one Fan always

Everything happens for a reason and the reason gonna be totally uniqe as we say different or anything that perceives our life much worse or worth and that’s life

We always tend to judge people without knowing the truth. This video was much needed.

everyone’s pain is unique great lines ..

Every person is having different in their own problems and as jay said they’re unique is absolutely correct! I’ve problems been in problems but like everyone assumes that they get that problem and try to solve it but its very different what they think as we shouldn’t judge others by their problems but help them out in an unique way –

Good wishes you And about your precious book “Think Like a Monk” would be a masterpiece. From Bangladesh

I’ve been through this. One of my closest friends judged me. It affected me a lot and I couldn’t trust them again

It’s our humanfolly nature to judge people without knowing their conceal stories. It’s like making a curry without salt.

You’re soooooooooooo….. right I’ve always been doing this unknowingly and felt that I can connect with others more by telling that I know about this but in reality I was being disconnected from them ….

Love the message man . Thankx man !!!!

Thank you Jay Sir …..this was an awesome and very helpful video …..

It’s really great…. This made my mind clear

Beautiful ️ Very well narrated Very much needed

all we gotta do is to not judge anyone Gos is the judge we dont have to perfect let’s learn from our mistakes

Fresh ears and fresh eyes! Love that Jay.

I absolutely agree with you Jay!

What a beautiful monk!

We shouldn’t invalidate’s people’s feelings. And we shouldn’t put a time frame on healing from a situation. Everybody heals in their own time. Everyone is allowed to feel what they are feeling, regardless of how long it’s been. Never think that you shouldn’t feel a certain way because someone else tells you that you shouldn’t. It took me a long time to learn that lesson.

I subscribed your channel bcos I always get inspiration, and your channel is very encouraging. Thank you.

This is so ture…It is bad to judge someone they can be the same person who can help you become successful in life.

the most effective person

Truly is your artistic creation to conceptualized topics and stories coming from real life experience is really amazing, not only this video but all of your videos..really transforming and i feel massive connection with it…as a Life Coach here in the Philippines i’ve watched many of your videos in fact, your work Inspired me to create my own Youtube Channel out of my own effort to create stories just like yours, local version so i can also connect with all the Filipinos worldwide. I honor you Jay Shetty for your work and your passion.

I agree that it’s not about the nature of pain but some people just tend to victimize themselves and this reasoning provides them with an excuse to do it more. We do need to recognize the pain of others however that’s not always possible since we can’t truly feel anyone’s pain. The best way to help someone is by providing them with a sense of responsibility.

Great work man

Thank you for saving me from am argument or potential break up.

The more colourful and helpful judgement is one that’s also more open to nuances, anomalies, the individual, the complexity, the unknown, the potential, the search for moral and virtuous change, responsibility… rather than the more closed, cynical, dismissive, (too) simple, uncompassionate, stereotypical, the collective, and the general, and irresponsibility and blame. This is because there’s also much more in this existence than what we think and know… there’s seemingly no shortage of the unknown and what’s beyond… we’ve barely scratched the surface and we probably may always will because our minds are limited to what we know so far. Nothing is ever a totality. And that’s the journey – the struggle towards accuracy and truth… it’s when, what, when, why and how we get there, not only about WHAT WE GET (ie. The result or outcome) when we get there – whether the result/outcome is wanted, unwanted, intended or unintended – they’re all feedback and information for improvements and growth. You don’t stay there forever or you naturally stagnate and suffer more than is necessary. We can rest for a bit and be grateful for the desirables – we need to settle down as well because that’s how we recharge and refresh and not burn ourselves out from working for too long. But then we gotta keep going and moving on as we learn from that experience. Starting points aren’t the end point. I say, do not mistake them as places to settle into for long or indefinite periods, no matter how convenient and effortless it seems. Because it’s easier not to think, to not do the work… and that’s a detrimental idea. The key is balancing settling down, to close shop and open up shop, and move forward again by taking stock of past experiences and aiming for achievable but challenging-enough ideals for the future. From there, through listening openly, you can learn something useful/helpful for yourself whilst simultaneously then learning how to help the person learn by formulating new and potentially better ways in helping themselves as individuals in their own personal, responsible and suitable way; such that it’s intended in figuring out what’s good/helpful for them to grow stronger and wiser for now in the present, by learning from the past and fleshing that out into the present as they forge a more stable and balanced ideal future… and same can go for the listener too in their own way. We’re here to help each other out as individuals, rather than write it off and leave stones unturned… that is, for the people that actually genuinely want to help. Sometimes you gotta ask yourself… what do you prefer? A short slogan/statement? Or a story? I prefer the latter. There’s more to it and there’s greater reasoning and explanation behind it. That’s where the wisdom can be found. And you don’t find that in a sprint because that finishes quick. You’re more likely to find it in a marathon because there’s more in it. You just have to be open to complexity. I think it’s fine to predict and judge from what is commonly known… as long as you admit that it’s just the start or in-progress and not the end, that there’s a possibility that it’s not accurately and helpfully true, and understand that there’s always a possibility that there’s more to it. For me, I always try to leave the door slightly ajar, even if I sometimes prefer to have it closed. Because you just never completely know.

Perfect advise.. Fresh ears and eyes..

Very apt. I seem to auto fill from my cache and it sure has led to misinterpretetions. By the way, I seem to have missed part 1 of the series. Let me look it up.

Breathing pattern changes the way of living.

Me who listen to people on DMs know how deep this is.

I understand completely. Then articles that say “How to _________” should then say “How I ________” in order to give consistent content.

Jay you are great…its very true..

Man I love ur videos they help me alot but something that I’m tryanna figure out is how do I know I love someone and I really would like ur help x

Best video ever watch

Awesome advice so I will never judge

Great

Who we are to judge someone else? No one has right to judge someone. Secondly, wasting your time for thing about someone else,,, that is creepy.

Thank you

Awesome Video!!!!!!

Presume, predict,assume,judge Not at all good before you know them well

Wow.. that’s great..!!!

Tq for the meaningful msg

Wow

Thank you sir……..

Hey jay shetty..I wanna ask a small question..Hope you read this comment..Don’t you face any problems in your life..

I need this book…. link please

Wow …this hit me hard

Thank You man

Exactly why some of us can’t get help..

Awesome

Your experience is never the same either

Wow.. that’s great..!!!

JAY <3

Exactly.Its so true.we assume no not we I yes me.

Don’t judge someone, unless they fuck you up and drag you into their problems. #parents…

Very good point!

Love Jay

This s so true

Thanks jay from

Anyone know the background music please?!

so nice video

yes it helped

Man…I love you

We shouldn’t even judge anyway..

Excuse me sir…!! Will u plzz tell me why should we think like a monk when we can eventually think like a human we are a normal humans n we have ability to think differently n that’s what is our power then why do u want us B think like a monk…????!!! When u urself is not a successful monk…!!!

Wow

Thanks thanks again

Anyone know what the background piano music is please?!?!

Please suggest how to not bother of being judged.